My parents fight about 3 times a day about money. We seem like a well off family with a big house but my dad owes about $500,000 in debt and were about to file bankcruptcy. My mom puts him down all the time and goes bolistic. My dad tries to stay calm but he can get violent and has made a dent in our fridge from built up anger. I have a 11 year old brother and we can’t handle it anymore. We don’t cry or get sad physically because were so used to it. I have definately noticed that I don’t have as much emotion anymore at all and nothing emotionally phases me. My brother and I are mentally hurt and my parents say they are going to divorce but since we have no money they can’t. This is really just a summary of our many problems. What should I do? Im already stressed out about clothes, getting a car, college and more because we can’t afford it. Please help. Im hopeless.

I’m sorry it’s in this category but no one ever answers in the right one so I just chose this one. It has to do with love anyways lol. Please be honest with your answers and sorry it’s so long =/
I have like 5 exes but there’s one named Derrick who felt the most connected to me. There’s something I noticed when we were in high school. We still are but after I explain everything, tell me if it seems like I’m the only one who loved him the most and loved him for him, not for his appearance. And don’t tell me to get over him please, I already know that. It’s hard and taking half a year so far but I’m still trying. I was with him for 7 months and 3 by the way, and everyone else lasted shorter. I was with him two times total.
Anyways, 1st time I was with him, he was short for his age, his brown hair was also short which made him look almost bald, he had no muscle and was scrawny, his voice wasn’t deep, he had no tattoos piercings or cool jewelry guys wear. He wore casual clothes, not skin tight clothes made of leather, he had glasses, and he wore normal shoes. I still was happy to be with him though and had very strong emotions for him. Also, no other girl chased after him during this time.
2nd time I was with him, he was much taller, had thicker and longer/more hair, had biceps and had tattoos. Derrick also got rid of his glasses, his voice deepened dramatically, and he wore giant boots along with cool leather clothing. After he broke up with me during this time, suddenly tons of girls chased after him (even when I was with him this 2nd time). So many wanted to date him, and I still loved him as much as I did the 1st time (when he was completely different). When he eventually dumped these crazy girls, I found out they quickly moved on while I rejected other guys who asked me out. I thought about Derrick everyday and cried everyday, struggling to get over him. Anyways, all I wanna know is after everything I explained, does it seem like I’m the one who REALLY loved him and loved him for him? Does it seem like all the other girls only wanted him for his “sexy” appearence and popularity?

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He’s already been a vain jerk to you but you kept persisting and challenging yourself to get on his good side. Nothing seemed to be working and after all, he’s your coworker who’s involved with the employer so for the safety of your job, you never flip out on him.
You keep pushing, pushing, pushing for him to open up and you noticed from the beginning, he seems a little mentally off(shows no emotion or remorse).
One day he finally pushes you against a gate(hard enough to bruise your back) and you keep quiet for the rest of the walk to the office. Not only because you’re scared of the 6 foot 4″ boy but you don’t really know what to say.
THE NEXT DAY: How would you react?
I mean, would you just blow it off and let it pass thinking he’s emotionally disturbed or doesn’t know his own strength? Or would you be holding a grudge and looking for some answers?
Thank you for your opinions. Your explanations will really help me and my book.
=)

Well I need to pee kinda badly.. and I want to cuddle something cute.
..if that classes as an emotion….

Sorry guys, this ones a little lengthy
I just recently got back together with the my first love ( but have been on and off since literally the eighth grade ) I’m 18 now, and starting to see certain things.. One of our better common interests is sex, we have a lot of it.. and it’s real good. Aside from that we have nearly nothing in common.. Im outdoorsy and laid back, she’s a ‘girly girl’ and has a hard time dealing with her emotions without putting on a big dramatic stunt. I’d say its about 50/50, when she’s not being a bitc*, she’s overly sweet and rediculously in love with me. I love her too, but I feel like sometimes if she was ugly rather than a model, I would have left a while ago because I put up with A LOT of bs.. and at the same time I’m only 18! I feel like even if I were to put 150% percent into this girl we’d still end up in heartbreak. we fight nearly every day and have a lot of trust issues. Please, give me some feedback!

First off…
For the past week i havn’t been able to fall to sleep until 3 am, i don’t know why but i get so frustrated about it that the only way i can get myself to sleep is by listening to sad music that will get me to cry. This morning i woke up with a massive headache and all day i couldn’t smile much.. My friend who strangely enough visited me out of the blue after class said i might have what’s called ‘the summertime blues.’ How can i cope with this? it’s really taking a toll of me physically, i mean i havn’t worked out for almost a week now…and no i’m not depressed
my other question…
I’ve been in and out of relationships for the past 3 years and each one has been a twister full of different emotions. during my last break-up i was talking to someone i met online, somehow he helped me thru the process of letting go, and i know he was going thru the same. long story short, i have contacts i’ve developed over the internet who have lasted over 3 years now and yet this one really got to me, i can’t explain why i feel so attached to this person..they havn’t particularly shared much with me, in fact he keeps himself pretty closed off to me meaning he doesn’t share emotional/personal stuff with me. but what is it? i’m beginning to wonder if this is even normal anymore? to feel something for someone you’ve never met before?
if anyone can help me figure these two questions out i will really appreciate the time.

They are creatures run by emotion and with the way “women rights” are going they will feel the need to get special treatment over everything, then after that their corrupted ways will influence every other country in the world until they finally see the need to enslave all male kind.
Yeah that’s right the world will become one big S&M fest unless we stop feminism before it destroys are earth, together we must unite and stop these evil beings; so who is with me?

You know, like when they’re mad at themselves but that believe that you’re mad at them instead of what’s really going on?
My friend’s been pulling that stunt on me for a while, and I want to tell her to stop using me as her vessel for her self-hatred acts. I also want to have the psychological term for it because otherwise she won’t believe me.

I know I’m one out of the 50 guys who likes my friend, and I’m suppose to help him and be there for him when he needs support but I really have no clue on how to help him. My friends name is Brandon and the guys name is like Tucker or something. So the situation is that he went out with Tucker and Tucker said his ex kissed him when they were dating so Brandon told Tucker he should just go out with his ex. Tucker is now. Tucker keeps telling him he’s going to make out with his new boyfriend, Brandon got a boyfriend and told Tucker he’s going to make out and stuff with his boyfriend to show how Tucker how it feels. Tucker keeps claiming how madly inlove he’s in with Brandon and it broke Brandon apart and Brandon broke up with his boyfriend. Tucker said I love you to Brandon twice. He says Tucker keeps mixing up his emotions and when he’s just talked to Tucker he breaks into tears. I don’t know how I can help Brandon or if I can, so if I can how can I help him with this situation?